Do you want to get out of it?
A rut and a dance are both furrows. But a ditch is boring, boring and can be depressing. Although being in the groove is energising and good fun. And being in the dance is a getting the best out of yourself.
Where are you right now?
In a Rut or even a Groove?
A trench is caused by having your foot firmly on the gas. Youre pressing it down for several you’re worth but youre not going anywhere. Absolutely no where!!
You’re, most likely, covering all of the people standing behind you with waste, lawn, waste and earth and so forth, but youre not going.
Actually youre getting deeper and deeper in some trouble until eventually you’re up to the axle and perhaps not going anywhere. So trapped that you’ll need a spade, a hand, a tow truck, something to have you going again.
How did you receive there?
Doing a similar thing 7 days a week. Following a same program over and over again. Following these great phrases in your head;
It had been good enough for. It will be sufficient for me personally
It worked for. It’ll benefit me.
You always did it this way..
Before you try it out at us we are not knocking history. Tradition has a place although not at the cost of excitement and pleasure.
Inside our guide, if it makes you sad, bored and cynical why are you doing it?
How will you escape it?
Change your habits.
Its your habits that got you to the rut and its your habits that will get you out.
You have to accept that you’re in a trench.
You have to acknowledge that you have been taking the easy option for a long time.
You’ve to simply accept that at a certain time you made a mistake.
You’ve to simply accept that time and money aren’t likely to get you out of this mess.
You’ve to alter.
The action must be initiated by you. Nobody else. Only YOU. No-one can get you out of a trench just you.
Take a seat for an instant. Think.
Whats the actual issue?
Whats behind your heading deeper and deeper right into a rut?
Whats worries here?
What are you trying to prevent?
DONT hurry it. Stick to it.
Do anything you need to do to bottom it and get the way forward.
Steadily jot down the way in which out. Dont take the very first solution. Make effort to publish down 30 a few ideas of the way out. Gradually you will become more and more innovative. The other thought will stay. A full orchestra will be come equipped with fairy lights, spot light and if you are really lucky by it.
Thats just how forward.
Now you have a means forward that feels comfortable. Now you are getting into the dance. You are feeling pleased, energised, focussed. You are in the movement. The enthusiasm is excited. Every thing is in synch. Anything you do works.
It is owed by you to yourself.
Graham and Julie
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